Last Update August 26th, 2016 Being able to be confident about something, whether it’s a skill, yourself, sex or whatever, will actually increase your positive results.
This means that if you are confident with your body language or how your life is going, women will be more attracted to you than anything else you can do.
Being confident in the bedroom will also increase the positive results in the bedroom.
If you know the techniques to last longer, and you know you can delay your ejaculation, it will take huge amounts of pressure off of you and in turn increasing how long you last the bedroom.
Being confident that you can defeat premature ejaculation is a huge boost in stopping premature ejaculation, so you will need to take the necessary steps to truly be confident.
If you also know how to help your woman orgasm, it will take a huge amount of pressure of your shoulders of worrying if she liked your session of sex or not.
Skills to be Confident
What we all need to learn to be confident in bed is the basic skills that will help us last longer in the bedroom.
The first thing you need to learn how to do is the 10 thrusts technique.
With this technique, you will KNOW that you can last as long as you want because you are thrusting in a way that will make you last longer.
It’s very basic, thrust shallow 9 times with half or less of your penis inside your woman.
And 1 long deep thrust with your whole penis inside her.
This technique reduces the urge to ejaculate, because instead of 10 deep thrusts in a row (which is far too much stimulation) you thrust only deep once every 10 thrusts.
Positions for Confidence
Positions are very important, if you can’t handle your woman on top and her random movements, it’s best you use a position which you have control.
Any variation of missionary will do wonders for you.
Another great position that puts you in control is spooning.
This position is basically just like spooning during cuddling; you just enter her from behind while you both lay down on your sides.
If she’s moving too much, grab her hips and stop her.
Confidence comes from knowing you can control her body and your body and stop the movements to stop ejaculation from happening.
Techniques for Confidence
Another huge boost of confidence comes from when you KNOW how to help your woman orgasm.
It’s true, some women fake orgasms, so you will need to do your best to know when a real orgasm happens for her.
Communicate with her, and have her show you what she does or what you can do to help her orgasm faster.
What hand movements, what thrust techniques.
If she doesn’t know this, you can start doing things that generally give most women orgasms.
The easiest one is rubbing her clit with a well-lubed hand while your thrust.
You’ll need a position where you can reach around, but when you combine the rubbing with thrusting, orgasms will happen within minutes.
Figure out what gets her to orgasm the fastest and biggest, and work around that, just don’t repeat the same thing over and over, it gets boring for her.
Knowing skills and techniques that help you last longer and help your woman orgasm faster builds true confidence, there is no real way around it.
These are vital skills that you need to know as sex becomes more and more liberal, women will start demanding men with skills. And if we don’t have the skills, they’ll go out and find another guy who has them.
Just knowing this stuff will put you ahead of over 95% of guys.
I teach all the necessary skills in the Endless Man Formula:
