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Q&A: When a guy doesn’t ejaculate, how does he know when he has an orgasm?

Last Update August 26th, 2016

”When a guy doesn’t ejaculate, how does he know when he has an orgasm?” -Stephen

Answer:

The short answer:

Orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing.

The longer answer:

A man can ejaculate without an orgasm and can orgasm without ejaculation.

It’s that feeling of pleasure split seconds before the ejaculation AND the spasms that happen after ejaculation that is an orgasm, that feeling can be replicated without ejaculating so a man can have multiple orgasms and have sex longer.

The orgasm also kind of resets your urge to ejaculate and can reduce the sensitivity of ejaculating.

Enough orgasms

The orgasm can cause you to go soft, it’s normal, you’ll actually be hard in no time because orgasm alone doesn’t take away your desire to have sex. Think how women can have sex after they have one orgasm.

Going soft is generally a condition response from ejaculating over the years, with enough conditioning in reverse, you can have an orgasm while thrusting and staying hard to keep going as long as you want.

To train your ability to separate your orgasm from your ejaculation requires the ability to control your ejaculation.

There is no trick to controlling your ejaculation, it’s a set of defined steps a man goes through.

Start with these 5 tips to lasting longer they are on the path to the multi-orgasmic man.

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Premature Ejaculation Techniques

Q&A: Can you tell me how I can overcome my premature ejaculation? I want last longer during sex

Last Update August 26th, 2016

“Can you tell me how I can overcome my premature ejaculation? I want last longer during sex” – Lagos

Answer:

The best way to overcome premature ejaculation is to develop habits that allow you to control when you want to ejaculate.

The First “Trigger” To Focus On

The biggest thing I start with for clients is to find what triggers their ejaculation.

We’ve conditioned ourselves to ejaculate.

This can be with porn, with a specific feeling or sensation.

Personally, I’ve had premature ejaculation problems because I started masturbating when I was 7 years old.

I conditioned myself over the years to orgasm and ejaculate as fast as possible to feel the “pleasure” of ejaculating.

This trigger haunted me for years until I figured out how to change my trigger so I knew how to control my ejaculation.

Even though I can last as long as I want now, a specific set of sensations with my partner will make me ejaculate, so I stay in control.

What are your triggers?

It could be the sensation of a woman’s vagina, it could be porn, whatever it is, be aware of it!

That’s the first step.

Once you figure out that, you create a habit where you are in control of that sensation and you either override it or pause it when you are near ejaculation.

Start these 5 steps next after you figured out your trigger and you’ll be well on your way to curing your premature ejaculation.

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Premature Ejaculation Techniques

Q&A: Can you tell me how to last very long when having sex?

Last Update August 26th, 2016

Can you tell me how to last very long when having sex?” – Tbag

Answer:

To last longer during sex so you and your partner can have mind blowing sex boils down to a few simple things.

It’s basically a formula I like to call the Endless Man Formula.

The formula basically goes like this:

  1. You must practice the right deep breathing technique
  2. You must eat the right foods to boost your testosterone
  3. You must condition your body and penis to last longer
  4. You must stop looking at porn
  5. You must masturbate in a way that promotes longevity
  6. You must use the right techniques during sex
  7. You must truly be in the moment during sex

Pretty simple right? Maybe.

It’s a list of 7 things and remembering them one by one is difficult.

It’s very important to spend your time making these into habits so you don’t need to think of them during the moment.

They become something you do automatically.

I’m sorry to say that if you think you’ll start lasting 30 minutes longer over night, it won’t happen.

But once you start “passively” by habit doing these 7 things, you’ll literally last as long as you want.

How do you develop these into habits?

I’d recommend spending one week at a time cultivating a habit alone, and adding a new habit along side of it after each week.

This is the accelerated method to developing habits and something I teach in the Endless Man Formula.

It’s a bad idea to practice more than one habit at a time BUT if you practice habits in such a way that makes it something you do automatically, you can STACK your habits and last as long as you want.

That’s the problem I’ve found in anything about lasting longer in bed.

Too many techniques to remember and too many pills to take that only last temporarily.

Best Technique To Start

The best thing you can do right now to start lasting longer, is practice your breathing technique.

Once you get that down, move on to the other 6 steps and keep making it a habit.

It’s generally easier to stop multiple bad habits at the same time and only developing 1 habit at a time.

Devote yourself to creating positive habits, you’ll see amazing results in bed and in life.

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Erectile Dysfunction Premature Ejaculation

A Weird Way To Stop Premature Ejaculation & Erectile Dysfunction?

Last Update August 26th, 2016 This is not your everyday way of stopping premature ejaculation & erectile dysfunction.

In fact, you might call it very weird.

I’ve worked with a lot of clients and some methods just do not work because there is a mental block that stops them from lasting longer in bed.

This mental block took years and years to create, and sometimes it will take months and months to get rid of it.

I’ll tell you about how to get over this metal block later.

The methods I teach in the Ejaculation Control Blueprint definitely do work, I’ve seen so many men transform and start lasting longer and having the best sex in their lives…

Though it may take longer than some folks desire only because they might not have the time or their mental block is just too big.

This is when I discovered hypnosis and how it started working for clients of mine to combine my techniques with this weird technique to convince your subconscious to allow you to truly experience the pleasure of sex and last longer at the same time.

Weird right? Hypnosis to treat premature ejaculation & erectile dysfunction and last longer during sex? I didn’t believe it too until I saw the results I mentioned before.

It helped men get over some mental blocks that were just difficult for them to do.

The cool part about it is that it’s been proven in so many ways to work and there are great people who created these techniques.

First, Joel Block Ph.D., best-selling author and a senior psychologist at The Long Island Jewish Medical Center, guides you through proven techniques for ending premature ejaculation. Dr. Block has helped thousands of men gain ejaculatory freedom.

Second, Lonnie Barbach Ph.D., best-selling author and faculty member of the University of California Medical School, takes you through powerful hypnosis sessions in order to reinforce what Dr. Block has taught you, while enabling you to maximize sexual sensations.

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Premature Ejaculation

How to Be Confident in Bed

Last Update August 26th, 2016 Being able to be confident about something, whether it’s a skill, yourself, sex or whatever, will actually increase your positive results.

This means that if you are confident with your body language or how your life is going, women will be more attracted to you than anything else you can do.

Being confident in the bedroom will also increase the positive results in the bedroom.

If you know the techniques to last longer, and you know you can delay your ejaculation, it will take huge amounts of pressure off of you and in turn increasing how long you last the bedroom.

Being confident that you can defeat premature ejaculation is a huge boost in stopping premature ejaculation, so you will need to take the necessary steps to truly be confident.

If you also know how to help your woman orgasm, it will take a huge amount of pressure of your shoulders of worrying if she liked your session of sex or not.

Skills to be Confident

What we all need to learn to be confident in bed is the basic skills that will help us last longer in the bedroom.

The first thing you need to learn how to do is the 10 thrusts technique.

With this technique, you will KNOW that you can last as long as you want because you are thrusting in a way that will make you last longer.

It’s very basic, thrust shallow 9 times with half or less of your penis inside your woman.

And 1 long deep thrust with your whole penis inside her.

This technique reduces the urge to ejaculate, because instead of 10 deep thrusts in a row (which is far too much stimulation) you thrust only deep once every 10 thrusts.

Positions for Confidence

Positions are very important, if you can’t handle your woman on top and her random movements, it’s best you use a position which you have control.

Any variation of missionary will do wonders for you.

Best position to last longer in bed is spooning

Another great position that puts you in control is spooning.

This position is basically just like spooning during cuddling; you just enter her from behind while you both lay down on your sides.

If she’s moving too much, grab her hips and stop her.

Confidence comes from knowing you can control her body and your body and stop the movements to stop ejaculation from happening.

Techniques for Confidence

Another huge boost of confidence comes from when you KNOW how to help your woman orgasm.

It’s true, some women fake orgasms, so you will need to do your best to know when a real orgasm happens for her.

Communicate with her, and have her show you what she does or what you can do to help her orgasm faster.

What hand movements, what thrust techniques.

If she doesn’t know this, you can start doing things that generally give most women orgasms.

The easiest one is rubbing her clit with a well-lubed hand while your thrust.

You’ll need a position where you can reach around, but when you combine the rubbing with thrusting, orgasms will happen within minutes.

Figure out what gets her to orgasm the fastest and biggest, and work around that, just don’t repeat the same thing over and over, it gets boring for her.

Knowing skills and techniques that help you last longer and help your woman orgasm faster builds true confidence, there is no real way around it.

These are vital skills that you need to know as sex becomes more and more liberal, women will start demanding men with skills. And if we don’t have the skills, they’ll go out and find another guy who has them.

Just knowing this stuff will put you ahead of over 95% of guys.

I teach all the necessary skills in the Endless Man Formula:

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5 Biggest Mistakes That Cause Premature Ejaculation

Last Update August 26th, 2016 There are many factors that cause premature ejaculation.

Many of them are not very difficult to cure.

This is important to know because we feel like it’s a difficult and impossible problem to cure premature ejaculation.

It’s not your fault for thinking it’s impossible to cure. We’ve actually been lied to by the doctors, media, movies, and porn.

The main problem I find with doctors is that they want to fix the symptom of our problems, instead of curing the ACTUAL problem itself.

If we go to the doctor and the doctor finds high cholesterol (which by the way is set by the drug companies who sell drugs to reduce cholesterol levels) they will likely prescribe pills for us that help lower our cholesterol.

Disclaimer: None of this is medical advice nor is it professional advice, these are just my opinions, consult a GOOD doctor before starting any exercise program, diet, or changes in medication.

The problem here is the pills are unnatural and many “high” cholesterol levels defined by doctors are actually just fine.

We can eat 4 eggs a day, including the yolk, and be just fine. Our bodies produce more cholesterol than the eggs we consume, and the nutrients we get from the yolk are better for us to have than not have because of the cholesterol.

Cholesterol eaten in the right amounts, at the right times can dramatically boost your sex drive, we’ll talk about that in another article.

The reasons the doctors prescribe the drugs is because they don’t make money if we eat better and exercise.

They make money from the drug companies for promoting those drugs.

A problem occurs with the pills they give us to cure premature ejaculation and to stop erectile dysfunction.

These pills work temporarily, and over time it requires MORE pills to get the same effect until they stop working completely.

There is no magic pill to fix premature ejaculation problems.

There are natural ways to fix these problems, and I’ll teach you those below.

Honestly, it’s not your fault, other than doctors, we have been lied to by a lot of people, even our friends.

The best thing we can do right now is take the necessary steps to cure our premature ejaculation naturally, easily, and quickly.

Lets cover the biggest mistakes that cause premature ejaculation and steps you can take TODAY to start lasting longer in bed.

Biggest Mistake #1

Ejaculating and not ejaculating is sort of like a muscle.

We can train it so we can be stronger and stop the urge to ejaculate.

The thing is, we usually skip this part because it requires effort.

What we can train is our sensitivity, our penis’ sensitivity to touch and sensation.

Even before and during sex, we have to train our sensitivity every time until we have full control of our ejaculation.

The best thing you can do right now to train your sensitivity during sex is what I call the 10 Thrusts technique.

Here you basically thrust to a count of 10, the first 9 thrusts are shallow, half or less of your penis enters your partner.

On the 10th thrust, you thrust deep, and repeat the 9 shallow thrusts again with the deep 10th thrust.

What this does is reduce friction on the head of your penis, the most sensitive ejaculation causing part.

This technique also increases the pleasure your partner receives because the shallow thrusts tease her and the deep thrust will just blow her mind.

Biggest Mistake #2

Depending on what positions we use during sex, can determine how long we last during sex.

spooning position cure premature ejaculationThe absolute worse position to practice is Missionary Position.

The reason this position is the worse is because it requires balancing ourselves on our arms and sometimes legs and causes fatigue in us, which in turn makes us ejaculate faster.

What you can do is use what I think is the best position to reduce how fast you ejaculate

The position to use would be the spooning position.

It’s sort of like cuddling spooning, but instead you’ll enter her from behind instead of just holding her.

Use this technique with the 10 Thrusts technique and you can be Endless if you want to.

Biggest Mistake #3

This is something we usually don’t think about, but it’s vital to our everyday health.

It’s something we do unconsciously.

And if we do it incorrectly, it can take YEARS off of our lives.

It’s breathing.

The way we breathe before, during, and after sex is very important to how long we can last in bed.

If we breathe in short shallow breathes, we won’t last as long.

If we breathe in deep long breathes, that’s one of the main keys to curing premature ejaculation.

The technique I recommend is using the 10-1-10 breathing technique before and even during sex.

You basically breathe in for 10 seconds through your belly (expanding, making it bigger).

Hold for 1 second.

And breathe out for 10 seconds flattening your belly.

Repeat this 10 times before sex, and oxygen will flow through your body, into your blood stream, and in effect calm your nerves and body down so you last longer during sex.

Biggest Mistake #4

This is something that is also unconsciously done by our brains.

We don’t mean to do it, but we do it anyway and it really reduces how long we can last in bed.

The pressure we place on ourselves in how we perform during sex can be super intense.

This pressure will also make us last shorter because pressure during a performance can easily crumble our confidence, and in turn our subconscious brain listens to this voice telling us to ejaculate faster because we need to get it over with before we embarrass ourselves further.

The best thing to do with pressure is similar to breathing, just use the 10-1-10 breathing technique.

You use it during and before sex, and it will calm you down letting pressure off of you.

Biggest Mistake #5

Remember how we talked about the doctors before?

That’s the biggest mistake we do to try to cure our premature ejaculation.

We try to use a magic pill that is a false cure for our problem.

There is truly no magic pill, but there are easy, fast and natural ways I listed above which will help you last longer in bed.

The best thing to do with false cures is to get rid of them.

Start taking an approach to your body that your body is valuable and it’s worth putting in a few minutes a day to make sure your bedroom problems are gone.

If you really want some more in-depth information about these 5 deadly mistakes and how you can last longer, go ahead and put your email in the box below, and click the Get 5 More Tips To Last Longer button. I’ll send you 5 FREE in-depth presentations covering these topics and how you can last longer in bed.

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Go out and practice the cures for these 5 biggest mistakes that cause premature ejaculation, and let me know how it goes.

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Podcast Premature Ejaculation

EM 005 : Premature Ejaculation Cure – False Cures Cause Premature Ejaculation

Last Update August 26th, 2016 In this presentation, you will learn that you are doing something RIGHT NOW that is suppose to cure your premature ejaculation, actually, it only makes it worse.

I’ll teach you the biggest false cure of all that causes premature ejaculation. It won’t be pretty.

 

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Podcast Premature Ejaculation

EM 004 : Premature Ejaculation Cure – Reduce Pressure To Perform

Last Update August 26th, 2016

In this presentation, you will learn how to remove pressure you feel to perform well in bed. This pressure will make you ejaculate faster and causes premature ejaculation in many men.

You may not even know you are doing this, until you listen to this presentation.

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Podcast Premature Ejaculation

EM 003 : Premature Ejaculation Cure – Breathing Correctly To Stop Ejaculation

Last Update August 26th, 2016

In this presentation, you will learn how to breathe the correct way so that you DON’T ejaculate. That’s right, you’ll learn a technique that you can use tonight to stop your ejaculation.

Breathing incorrectly is one of the leading causes of premature ejaculation.

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Podcast Premature Ejaculation

EM 002 : Premature Ejaculation Cure – Reduce Fatigue In Bed To Last Longer

Last Update August 26th, 2016 

In this presentation, you will learn why some of your favorite positions are actually causing your premature ejaculation. I’ll also show you some super advanced techniques to increase amount of orgasms your partner feels and at the same time making you last longer.