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Premature Ejaculation

5 Biggest Mistakes That Cause Premature Ejaculation

Last Update August 26th, 2016 There are many factors that cause premature ejaculation.

Many of them are not very difficult to cure.

This is important to know because we feel like it’s a difficult and impossible problem to cure premature ejaculation.

It’s not your fault for thinking it’s impossible to cure. We’ve actually been lied to by the doctors, media, movies, and porn.

The main problem I find with doctors is that they want to fix the symptom of our problems, instead of curing the ACTUAL problem itself.

If we go to the doctor and the doctor finds high cholesterol (which by the way is set by the drug companies who sell drugs to reduce cholesterol levels) they will likely prescribe pills for us that help lower our cholesterol.

Disclaimer: None of this is medical advice nor is it professional advice, these are just my opinions, consult a GOOD doctor before starting any exercise program, diet, or changes in medication.

The problem here is the pills are unnatural and many “high” cholesterol levels defined by doctors are actually just fine.

We can eat 4 eggs a day, including the yolk, and be just fine. Our bodies produce more cholesterol than the eggs we consume, and the nutrients we get from the yolk are better for us to have than not have because of the cholesterol.

Cholesterol eaten in the right amounts, at the right times can dramatically boost your sex drive, we’ll talk about that in another article.

The reasons the doctors prescribe the drugs is because they don’t make money if we eat better and exercise.

They make money from the drug companies for promoting those drugs.

A problem occurs with the pills they give us to cure premature ejaculation and to stop erectile dysfunction.

These pills work temporarily, and over time it requires MORE pills to get the same effect until they stop working completely.

There is no magic pill to fix premature ejaculation problems.

There are natural ways to fix these problems, and I’ll teach you those below.

Honestly, it’s not your fault, other than doctors, we have been lied to by a lot of people, even our friends.

The best thing we can do right now is take the necessary steps to cure our premature ejaculation naturally, easily, and quickly.

Lets cover the biggest mistakes that cause premature ejaculation and steps you can take TODAY to start lasting longer in bed.

Biggest Mistake #1

Ejaculating and not ejaculating is sort of like a muscle.

We can train it so we can be stronger and stop the urge to ejaculate.

The thing is, we usually skip this part because it requires effort.

What we can train is our sensitivity, our penis’ sensitivity to touch and sensation.

Even before and during sex, we have to train our sensitivity every time until we have full control of our ejaculation.

The best thing you can do right now to train your sensitivity during sex is what I call the 10 Thrusts technique.

Here you basically thrust to a count of 10, the first 9 thrusts are shallow, half or less of your penis enters your partner.

On the 10th thrust, you thrust deep, and repeat the 9 shallow thrusts again with the deep 10th thrust.

What this does is reduce friction on the head of your penis, the most sensitive ejaculation causing part.

This technique also increases the pleasure your partner receives because the shallow thrusts tease her and the deep thrust will just blow her mind.

Biggest Mistake #2

Depending on what positions we use during sex, can determine how long we last during sex.

spooning position cure premature ejaculationThe absolute worse position to practice is Missionary Position.

The reason this position is the worse is because it requires balancing ourselves on our arms and sometimes legs and causes fatigue in us, which in turn makes us ejaculate faster.

What you can do is use what I think is the best position to reduce how fast you ejaculate

The position to use would be the spooning position.

It’s sort of like cuddling spooning, but instead you’ll enter her from behind instead of just holding her.

Use this technique with the 10 Thrusts technique and you can be Endless if you want to.

Biggest Mistake #3

This is something we usually don’t think about, but it’s vital to our everyday health.

It’s something we do unconsciously.

And if we do it incorrectly, it can take YEARS off of our lives.

It’s breathing.

The way we breathe before, during, and after sex is very important to how long we can last in bed.

If we breathe in short shallow breathes, we won’t last as long.

If we breathe in deep long breathes, that’s one of the main keys to curing premature ejaculation.

The technique I recommend is using the 10-1-10 breathing technique before and even during sex.

You basically breathe in for 10 seconds through your belly (expanding, making it bigger).

Hold for 1 second.

And breathe out for 10 seconds flattening your belly.

Repeat this 10 times before sex, and oxygen will flow through your body, into your blood stream, and in effect calm your nerves and body down so you last longer during sex.

Biggest Mistake #4

This is something that is also unconsciously done by our brains.

We don’t mean to do it, but we do it anyway and it really reduces how long we can last in bed.

The pressure we place on ourselves in how we perform during sex can be super intense.

This pressure will also make us last shorter because pressure during a performance can easily crumble our confidence, and in turn our subconscious brain listens to this voice telling us to ejaculate faster because we need to get it over with before we embarrass ourselves further.

The best thing to do with pressure is similar to breathing, just use the 10-1-10 breathing technique.

You use it during and before sex, and it will calm you down letting pressure off of you.

Biggest Mistake #5

Remember how we talked about the doctors before?

That’s the biggest mistake we do to try to cure our premature ejaculation.

We try to use a magic pill that is a false cure for our problem.

There is truly no magic pill, but there are easy, fast and natural ways I listed above which will help you last longer in bed.

The best thing to do with false cures is to get rid of them.

Start taking an approach to your body that your body is valuable and it’s worth putting in a few minutes a day to make sure your bedroom problems are gone.

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Go out and practice the cures for these 5 biggest mistakes that cause premature ejaculation, and let me know how it goes.

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Erectile Dysfunction

4 Biggest Mistakes That Cause Erectile Dysfunction

Last Update August 26th, 2016 There are 4 huge mistakes that nearly all of us make, which causes our Erectile Dysfunction.

While the mistakes that cause both premature ejaculation and ED are similar, this article is mainly about preventing ED.

If we learn to stop making these 4 mistakes, we’ll learn how to control our erections and ED will be a thing of the past.

If we don’t stop making these 4 mistakes, we’ll be at the whim of our problems in bed and be stressed out for the rest of our lives. Being an Endless Man in Bed will only be a dream.

What exactly is Erectile Dysfunction?

Here is the great Wikipedia (I know right) definition of ED:

[quote style=”boxed”]“Erectile dysfunction (ED) is sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis during sexual performance”[/quote]

ED in simple terms, is when we can’t get an erection or keep it hard when we want it to be hard and erect. Which is usually when we masturbate, when we have sex or are turned on.

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I’m not saying this to comfort you, but ED effects all men more than once in their lives.

There are times when we are nervous and it’s difficult to get an erection. We could be nervous with a new girlfriend, or just worried about other stuff in our lives.

The problem that happens is when we let these “worries” dictate how our future experiences with sex will be.

Instead of understanding that it’s OK that we couldn’t get hard that one time, we worry about it, and when you worry about something, it’s more likely to happen.

It is a psychological thing, the more time we spend trying to avoid something, our subconscious brain is being told by us to seek it out.

For example, if we say to ourselves please don’t have ED, please don’t be nervous, all our brain “hears” is please have ED or please be nervous.

Our brains don’t hear the “don’t” part that we speak. It just can’t understand that we don’t want something.

The 1st BIGGEST Mistake

Understanding how our brain works plays into the 1st BIGGEST mistake that causes erectile dysfunction.

Anxiety and stress is the number 1 mistake we make that causes ED.

It’s OK to be nervous, but if we pause our emotions at being nervous, it will create anxiety and stress in us.

This anxiety and stress in us will build, and build to the point where we can’t get an erection, we are too stressed out and nervous.

The thing about emotions is that, they are like a surfing wave, they go up and down, so we can catch the surf on our surfboard when the wave is up to when it goes down.

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The biggest problem we have with these “waves” of emotion is that we freeze them at the high point, or the low point, where we are nervous or stressed out.

We’re not suppose to freeze them, let them flow naturally and they will go away. The nervousness, the stress, the anxiety, we just need to let them go.

I show you in my 5 deadly mistakes presentations (presentation #4) an exercise how to unfreeze these emotions and let them go.

Another thing I personally do is meditate. Meditation, one of the oldest practices in the world (thousands of years old) is something which helps clear negative emotions from me and allow me to not worry about my performance during sex.

If you use this exercise before sex, you’ll nearly clear all the stress and anxiety you have about your performance in bed.

And when I don’t worry, well, lets just say my girl screams in pleasure.

I use Holosync to meditate daily. I’m getting some amazing results not just in my sex life, but in my business, and relationships.

The 2nd BIGGEST Mistake

Not taking care of our body. Meaning we don’t exercise enough nor do we eat what is good for our bodies.

These are some of the physical causes that cause erectile dysfunction:

  • High blood pressure
  • High cholesterol
  • Heart and vascular disease
  • Diabetes

Most of these can easily be handled by a good diet and exercise.

If we don’t take care of our bodies, these problems (and the drugs we take to try to treat them) actually do cause erectile dysfunction.

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They disrupt the natural way our bodies are supposed to work so we’re stuck with a body that doesn’t function the way we want.

The best thing we can do is to drink 3+ liters of water a day, eat whole foods such as beans, lentils, vegetables and lean meat, and exercise at least twice a week, preferably weight lifting.

To get into better shape, I would recommend starting with the book The Truth About Abs.

If you take care of your body, your ED problems will likely disappear.

Another benefit of getting into shape is that it can increase the size of your penis. There is some fat around our penis area, or pelvic area, that make our penis literally smaller because the fat pushes over our penis.

The 3rd BIGGEST Mistake

This is something we are usually guilty of doing at least one or two of these things.

Alcohol, drugs (illegal), and medications help cause our ED.

Alcohol itself is a depressant and doesn’t actually turn us on, so having sex before drinking is a bad idea because it helps remove our ability to get an erection and maintain it.

Drugs can have similar effects or worse because we lose our perception and ability to control all our actions.

drugs alcohol cause erectile dysfunctionAnd third medications for certain things can cause ED, because of the side effects and ingredients inside it. Make sure you read the warning labels on your medications because this may be the root of your erectile dysfunction problems.

The best practice here is to actually stop what we can stop.

This is NOT medical advice and shouldn’t be confused for professional advice either, just my opinion:

If you are taking a medication to save your life, well, keep taking it and definitely talk to a doctor before you stop or start taking any medication.

It will be difficult to stop drugs, and alcohol if you have an addiction, but if you really want to cure your bedroom problems and become endless in bed, it’s best to start taking steps to remove these from your life.

The 4th BIGGEST Mistake

You won’t find many people talking about this 4th biggest mistake that causes ED. Doctors and other studies just don’t think it’s a problem, but it’s like one of the BIGGEST problems that causes ED.

Watching porn is one of the leading causes of ED.

Stop Watching Porn to Stop Erectile DysfunctionThere are so many reasons why it causes ED. Whatever you associate with an erection, orgasm, or ejaculation become a trigger for your body to be aroused.

A trigger is basically something that causes something else. Like if you see a hot woman, it will trigger desire or arousal in you.

If you have trouble getting an erection with your woman WITHOUT porn, than you already know it’s a trigger for you.

If you have trouble getting an erection without thinking about porn, that’s an even worse trigger for you.

There have been many studies that porn warps our brains in bad ways.

Particularly, if we view violent porn, we will need even more violent porn OVER TIME to be turned on and ejaculate.

It conditions our brain sort of like smoking does.

When a person starts smoking, they get a surge of nicotine and it makes them feel more active or a little “high.” Over time the smoker starts needing a cigarette to feel “normal.”

Now, a smoker without a cigarette is LOWER than they were before (in how they feel) they started smoking, and they need to smoke to get to where they were BEFORE smoking.

It’s a vicious cycle and porn does the same thing to our brains.

If you can get rid of porn, it will be one of the best changes you make in your life.

It can take months or years to get rid of it completely (we’ve spent decades conditioning our brains and penis to it) but in the end it will be worth it because a lot of your ED problems will disappear.

What you want to do specifically is associate sex and arousal with your partner. You want to think about her, and how she turns you on, and over time your brain will associate your woman with sex instead of with porn.

If you go out and stop any of these 4 biggest mistakes and follow some of the directions I give you, your erectile dysfunction will likely be cleared in no time.

If you do all 4, your results will be amazing.

Let me know how it goes for you.

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Podcast Premature Ejaculation

EM 005 : Premature Ejaculation Cure – False Cures Cause Premature Ejaculation

Last Update August 26th, 2016 In this presentation, you will learn that you are doing something RIGHT NOW that is suppose to cure your premature ejaculation, actually, it only makes it worse.

I’ll teach you the biggest false cure of all that causes premature ejaculation. It won’t be pretty.

 

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Orgasms

How To Have Orgasms and Stop Ejaculation At The Same Time

Last Update August 26th, 2016 Did you know orgasms and ejaculation are two completely separate things?

You can orgasm without ejaculating, and you can ejaculate without orgasm.

You’ve likely experienced both of these things, but thought they were both a fluke.

Well, to be honest, they are not flukes, they exist and if you learn how to control your ejaculation, you can experience several orgasms during 1 session of sex.

We’ve been taught by culture, by friends, by TV, by movies, that if we “came” sex was over.

“Come” or “Came” are really just a combination of ejaculate and orgasm. You’ll see me personally separate orgasm and ejaculation when it comes to presentations and articles talking about coming.

They are two different things, and should be treated differently.

Now, you might question if it is even possible that they are separate. They are.

An orgasm happens seconds or milliseconds before ejaculation. This is difficult to separate because we’ve spent all our lives associating the feeling of an orgasm when we ejaculate.

You’ve likely already experienced this before.

Think back to a time where you had immense amount of pleasure but didn’t ejaculate.

You could feel the pleasure, it was very similar to ejaculating, but nothing came out. After this you could keep going, and going until you did ejaculate and orgasm again.

Also think about the times when you ejaculated and didn’t feel an orgasm. You’ve been sitting and wondering why it didn’t feel good right? Why it didn’t feel like you had an orgasm, even though you just ejaculated.

If we learn to take control of our ejaculation, we can make orgasms happen multiple times during 1 session of sex.

Honestly, it takes a lot of work to do, and if you go out and try to learn it yourself, it will take you YEARS instead of months or weeks to master this.

The very first thing that needs to happen before you can separate your orgasms and ejaculation is that you need to be an endless man in bed.

You have to be able to last for as long as you want and choose to ejaculate when you want, not when your body wants.

You will need to learn the Endless Man in Bed Formula that I teach.
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This Formula, takes all the steps needed to achieve being Endless in Bed and will let you have multiple orgasms during sex.

Now, lets get to what you can start doing today that will help you have orgasms without ejaculating.

The biggest thing you need to do today is to masturbate without ejaculation.

Stop at least 20 seconds before you are going to ejaculate, stop moving, stop sensations, and if you are viewing porn (which I recommend against 100%) stop watching the porn at the moment.

Start masturbating again when you feel the urge to ejaculate has stopped.

Now keep reducing the amount of time before you ejaculate where you stop.

So, stop 15 seconds before ejaculation, and start again when you are ready.

10 seconds before ejaculation, and start again when you are ready.

Keep going until you tip over the edge and ejaculate.

Keep doing this practice, even if you ejaculate, at another time, you will slowly be able to separate both sensations in your brain.

While you keep practicing this stop start technique, you will orgasm without ejaculating a few times before you ejaculate.

After you learn the Endless Man in Bed Formula, than you’ll be able to stop your ejaculation all together and experience the orgasms you’ve only dreamed of.

Use the 10 Thrusts technique, if you want to practice the stop start technique during sex. The 10 thrusts technique can keep you from going over the edge and keep your partner on edge on what to anticipate what you are doing next.

The great thing about having multiple orgasms before ejaculation, is that when you do ejaculate, it’s going to be huge and feel great. Also if you separate your ejaculation and orgasms, your premature ejaculation will be gone.

Go out and practice this and let me know how it goes for you.

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Podcast Premature Ejaculation

EM 004 : Premature Ejaculation Cure – Reduce Pressure To Perform

Last Update August 26th, 2016

In this presentation, you will learn how to remove pressure you feel to perform well in bed. This pressure will make you ejaculate faster and causes premature ejaculation in many men.

You may not even know you are doing this, until you listen to this presentation.

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EM 003 : Premature Ejaculation Cure – Breathing Correctly To Stop Ejaculation

Last Update August 26th, 2016

In this presentation, you will learn how to breathe the correct way so that you DON’T ejaculate. That’s right, you’ll learn a technique that you can use tonight to stop your ejaculation.

Breathing incorrectly is one of the leading causes of premature ejaculation.

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How To Thrust to Increase Pleasure In Your Partner and How Long You Last

Last Update August 26th, 2016 Did you know you can thrust in a way that will not only increase how much pleasure your partner receives (she’ll love it), but also make you last longer?

Using this method of thrusting is very important in curing premature ejaculation. It may also help stop erectile dysfunction because you’ll KNOW that you won’t ejaculate early so you take pressure off yourself to perform.

Both premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction are caused by pressure we or others place on ourselves. It’s mostly something we personally make ourselves feel bad about, when we shouldn’t worry about it.

Now, on to the thrusting technique. Right now most us are thrusting in a way which is very repetitive. The reason we do this is because no one taught us different.

Sex is taboo for a lot of people, and when we talk to friends, we only talk about if we hit it or not. We don’t really get great advice from our dads or moms, so we’re left to do what we see on TV or movies.

In the movies, they just thrust continuously, and that’s just not right. That’s not how endless men do it.

Well, now you’ll find out that the normal way of thrusting many of us do is actually very boring for our partner, and one of the main reasons why we come too fast.

The continuous in and out motion of thrusting that we do puts too much stimulation on the tip of our penis. The tip of our penis is our most sensitive spot and too

Thrust in a way to Increase Pleasure and Last Longer

much stimulation here causes us to ejaculate faster.

Also, our partner doesn’t receive much pleasure from just in and out thrusting, we don’t really hit her G-spot and her clitoris usually doesn’t get rubbed by our in and out motion.

The in and out thrust we do is also VERY predictable, so she doesn’t anticipate what we’ll do next. It doesn’t excite her as much as it use to, because now she knows what will happen.

We might wonder to ourselves what we are doing wrong, we did it before like this and she liked it before…

Well remember this, if we expect different results from doing the same thing over and over, we are insane. We need to do something different to get different results.

I want to show you this special technique, taught for thousands of years in Taoism and Tantra. Taoism and Tantra are very sexual practices and have existed for thousands of years, so this stuff works, you just gotta give it a go.

10 Thrusts Technique

The technique I want to introduce to you today is called the 10 Thrusts technique.

You will use it while having sex with your partner and you are in control of the thrusts, usually you on top.

Instead of just going in and out, in and out, you will thrust 9 times shallow, where half or less of your penis goes inside your partner.

In and out 9 times shallow.

On the 10th thrust, you go deep and out, and repeat the 9 shallow thrusts again.

Now repeat the deep thrust again after the 9th shallow one.

You can count out in your head, don’t count out loud.

Do this throughout sex, and it will make your partner cringe for the deep long thrust.

The reason this increases pleasure in your partner is that a lot of pleasure for women comes from anticipation and surprise.

She doesn’t know when your deep long thrust will come, and her body will cringe thinking about it, and when it comes, it feels good for her.

You’ll last longer because instead of giving your whole penis sensation, you only put half sensation on your penis most of the time. The tip also doesn’t rub against her insides as much, so less stimulation on the tip, means you will last longer.

Continuous deep thrusts make us ejaculate faster, and we don’t want that.

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You can use this throughout sex, it’s ok to slow down and speed up during your thrusts, you should vary your thrust speed to increase excitement more in your partner.

Now to mix it up more and even give more pleasure to your partner, you can do random continuous deep thrusts.

So lets say you thrust shallow 4 times, than thrust deep 4 times and shallow again 9 times. You could also mix up the deep thrust in 5 shallow thrusts, 1 deep thrust, and 5 shallow thrusts.

Just mix and match thrusts in random ways that you can handle without coming.

One of the best positions you can do this in is spooning position. When you mix the 10 thrusts with this position, your partner will have mind blowing orgasms. You’ll feel them.

The more random you make it, the more your partner will scream…

In pleasure that is.

Go out and use this 10 thrusts techniques tonight and let me know how it works for you.

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Podcast Premature Ejaculation

EM 002 : Premature Ejaculation Cure – Reduce Fatigue In Bed To Last Longer

Last Update August 26th, 2016 

In this presentation, you will learn why some of your favorite positions are actually causing your premature ejaculation. I’ll also show you some super advanced techniques to increase amount of orgasms your partner feels and at the same time making you last longer.

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Podcast Premature Ejaculation

EM 001 : Premature Ejaculation Cure – Decrease Sensitivity to Last Longer In Bed

Last Update August 26th, 2016 

In this presentation, you will learn how to decrease your sensitivity in your penis to stop premature ejaculation. Some super advanced tips near the end on how to last longer in bed.